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What is your argument REALLY about?

Why do we keep having stupid arguments? Death by a thousand cuts – that’s what [...]

Tell-Tale Signs Of Trouble: Predicting Divorce

It’s not that hard to predict divorce. It’s actually fairly easy.  What’s hard is recognizing [...]

If You Have To Ask For It, It Doesn’t Count, Right?

I want to clear up a misconception I see so often in marriage counseling that [...]

Do You Want Things To Be This Way A Year From Now?

“If nothing changes, nothing changes.” I don’t know who first said that, but it challenges [...]

What’s a Love Language and Why You Should Care

Hidden Misunderstandings It’s possible you can love someone and they don’t feel it.  Or vice [...]

Are You Being Gaslighted?

It Starts With A Lie Have you ever felt like someone was trying to cover [...]

What’s Wrong With Date Night

The Set Up It seems like a no-brainer, doesn’t it?  Just set up a time [...]

Worried That You’re Not “In Love” With Your Spouse?

“I love him, but I’m not ‘in love’ with him.” It’s something I hear fairly [...]

Your Intentions Are Irrelevant

First Things First If your best friend reaches across the table for the salt and [...]